69 Foreplay Ideas to Make Your Own Bedroom Games for Couples

August 27, 2009

Not everyone wants to visit a sex store to buy couples games. If you crave more spice in your love life, make your own bedroom games using dice or cards. Just write down a list of ideas and map them to the card or dice combinations. It’s easy to do and you can change the activities later to mix up your sex play even more.

There are many regular card and dice games you can play using your list of foreplay ideas. With a little imagination, you can make up special rule changes so you both get to sensually play with each other too. Many board games using dice can also be enhanced with foreplay events. If you are eager to get down to business, just roll the dice or pick a card to choose an activity to perform – new combinations of pleasure again and again.

To get you started, here is a list of 69 foreplay ideas you can use to make up your own bedroom games. Play any couples game for two and make up your own rules to enjoy each other. And, if you’re really stuck for game ideas, check out our Sex Games & Foreplay Ideas For Couples: Be Naughty Play Dirty Together book available on Amazon. It includes hundreds of pleasuring activities of different intensity levels mapped to both dice and cards for use in your intimate games.

As sexy as you can, strip off one piece of clothing
Slowly remove an article of clothing from your partner (your choice)
Slow dance together for one song – great when you are naked
Put on one item of lingerie or sexy clothing your lover chooses
Standing, hug and kiss each other passionately (French kissing)
Perform a lap dance to music while removing one item of clothing
Describe in detail a raunchy sex scenario involving both of you
Lightly stroke your lover’s face, lips, neck and ears with your finger tips
Caress, kiss and lick up and back down your lover’s legs
Tickle the back of your partner’s knee with the tip of your tongue
Trace the major lines on your lover’s palm with the tip of your tongue
Take your lover’s thumb in your mouth and caress it with your tongue
Lick and suck each finger on one of your lover’s hand
Lick your partner’s wrist at the pulse point – exhale hot breaths on it
Standing, snuggle up behind your partner – caress and fondle them
Lick your lover’s nipple then blow cool air on it – repeat
Warm your lover’s nipple in your mouth then suck in cool air around it
Read a short passage from an erotic novel aloud in a sexy voice
Fast forward to a hot & steamy part in an erotic movie – watch one scene
Tickle the back of your lover’s neck with the tip of your tongue
Seductively describe in detail how you want to ravish your lover later
Use an artist brush to swirl flavored lube on your lover’s nipples
Pick an advanced sex position from a book to try out later
Pick a random page in a sex guide and use the technique later in your sex play
Place tender kisses all over your lover’s face
Stroke and rub your partner’s nose with your nose
Choose something from the refrigerator to smear on and lick off your lover
Blow “raspberries” on your lover’s belly or other ticklish regions of their body
Use your tongue to tickle your lover’s stomach – belly and sides
Sensually lick flavored lube or liquor from your lover’s navel
Softly whisper how hot and excited you are into your lover’s ear
Tenderly stroke, caress and kiss an exposed part of your lover’s body
Expose your bum and allow your lover to give you a sensual spanking
Orally pleasure an exposed erogenous zone – Kiss, lick, suck and nibble it
Perform a sensual, relaxing or erotic massage – your lover’s choice
Apply hot breaths to warm your lover’s crotch
Use your tongue to stroke out loving or sexy words on your lover’s back
Use your finger tips to massage your lover’s head and neck
Pretend to have a wild and intense orgasm – put on a sexy show
Massage each of your lover’s toes using oil, cream or lube
If exposed, oral pleasuring in any position your lover chooses
Select a sex toy and describe how you will pleasure your lover with it
Stimulate your lover with a sex toy (visual stimulation counts)
Lightly drag your nails down your lover’s back in different patterns
Use a feather to tickle your lover’s face, neck and ears
Make up a fantasy scene involving your lover self pleasuring while you watch
Write you a sex coupon involving dressing up or erotic use of clothing
Choose a sexy outfit or accessory for your lover to wear while making love
Look into your lover’s eyes as you suck one of their fingers and fondle them
Massage and nibble on your lover’s butt cheeks
Kiss, lick and play with your lover’s testicles
Lightly tickle your lover’s tailbone and between their butt cheeks
Pleasure your lover with a sex toy – flip a coin to determine who chooses
Caress your lover’s bare feet with your bare feet
Stimulate yourself by rubbing against your lover’s leg
Take your lover’s nipple in your mouth and hum as you lick
Lightly bite and nibble your lover’s buttocks
Use your breasts to caress any exposed region of your lover’s body
Kiss and nibble along your lover’s neck and shoulder from the back
Kiss and lick your lover’s throat and under their chin
With the tip of your tongue, lick along your lover’s collar bone
Find and read aloud a few dirty jokes – use books or the internet
Quickly draw a favorite sex position, activity or erotic image for your partner
Look on the internet together for ‘erotic art’ and discuss what inspires you
Use an ice cube & your tongue to cool then heat an exposed erogenous zone
Use a vibrator to stimulate your partner’s neck, chest and nipples
Describe a new location where you would like to have sex and how
Lightly stroke your lover’s inner thighs, along the crease and over their hips
Apply your lover’s favorite perfume or cologne on a different part of your body

While many of the above foreplay ideas are gender neutral, a few are geared more for the man or woman to perform while the other receives. Pick and choose ones you like, modify them or create your own. Add a time limit while performing these activities if you choose or let them play out until you are satisfied.

Have more fun, more pleasure and more sex while you improve your relationship with hot couples games in and out of the bedroom. For more spicy games and naughty pleasuring ideas to play with tonight, download the Kindle version of our Extra Naughty Frisky Foreplay book. In addition to hundreds of straight, gay, lesbian, bi-sexual and threesome foreplay ideas mapped to three dice combinations, it includes rules for a variety of games you can play with dice or cards. Also check out our related books:

You’ll get our rules for some naughty card games and sample card templates filled in with foreplay and sexplay ideas. These books also provide blank card templates for you to enter and save your own intimate activities.

We hope you enjoy designing, customizing and playing your very own sex games for couples. If you do order one of our books or apps, please give it a good rating and post a comment. Maybe even share your ideas for spicing up other adult games that you enjoy playing.