Lovemaking Lottery: Sexy Games With Random Sex Ideas

February 26, 2010

Is sexual boredom the proverbial elephant in your bed? Routine, vanilla sex can become a BIG problem most couples just want to ignore. We all hope it’ll get better like it used to be. Great sex is extremely important to your relationship. But, with just a bit of creativity and some good lovemaking ideas, you can easily get the sizzle back in your love life and enjoy better sex together.

Watch the video or read the article below to see how a lovemaking lottery style sex app with random lovemaking ideas can fire up your creative energy and sexual desire. Note that the app shown in the video is the original version which has recently been upgraded and totally redesigned with many new features. The new version also has many more sexy ideas to play with. You can even customize the ideas and add your own. See our updated article I Love Random Sex App for details about the current version.

Frig!!! YouTube deleted our bedroom games account so the video is no longer available.

Choose to be a dragon in your pleasure den and chase boredom out of your bedroom. With a simple creativity technique, you’ll discover how to heat up the passion and lust in your relationship and become a more exciting lover. Together, you can satisfy your cravings for novel sexual thrills and erotic adventure. It’s time to step out of your comfort zone to try something fresh and experience new tantalizing pleasures for both your mind and body.

Great sex is not just physical. We all need to stimulate our emotions and our imagination. Everyone wants the thrill of doing something wild, naughty and new. Even if you think you’ve tried everything before, try them again but add a twist. For instance, the missionary position is an old favorite for most couples. It’s intimate and comfortable in bed. Now try it on the front lawn in the morning dew – just a little more exciting.

One of the easiest ways to come up with something new and different is to randomly combine multiple ideas. Then see how you can make them work together. You’ll be amazed how your mind can take seemingly weird combinations and make sense of them. Even if the ideas appear totally unrelated, give it a chance and they will trigger new thoughts you can use. Let’s get your creative juices flowing so you can surprise each other with novel ideas that will reinvigorate your love life.

Make Your Own Couples Game

To start this couples game, consider that elements of great sex can be grouped into six categories:

Sensual Accessories: think of your drawer full of sex toys – do you use the vibrator, glass dildo or butt plug tonight? How about lingerie or a costume – lacy, silky, leather or latex? Do you break out the bondage equipment tonight? How many pleasuring accessories do you have in your drawer, closet or refrigerator?
Settings & Themes: location, style, mood, fantasy and role play. Your sexual desire can range from a sensual massage one day to a wild quickie in an elevator the next. Will you make love in bed, on the kitchen table, on the stairs or the back seat of a car? Will she role play as a French maid, an escort or a dominatrix?
Foreplay Ideas for Him: there are so many pleasure points to focus on besides the obvious one of course. How many male hot spots and stimulation techniques can you think of?
Foreplay Ideas for Her: think of using your lips, tongue, fingers and other body parts to lovingly caress and sensually explore all her luscious curves. How many of her erogenous zones have you pleasured recently? Are you missing or neglecting any?
Sex Play Activities: sex play may involve multiple positions as you build arousal – it’s more than just intercourse. There are so many imaginative positions and variations to experiment with. Manual and oral pleasuring also adds to the fun.
The Climax: consider how you will finish your sex session. What position or activity will result in orgasm – hand job, vibrator, intercourse, oral or anal sex? Will you both drift off to sleep, wash up for work or try to rev up for more?

With your partner, create a list of ideas for each category. Create separate lists if you like. Search through you closets, drawers and all around the house for sexy items you could play with. List all the sex positions, role play characters, fantasy scenarios, locations, etc., that you can imagine. If you need an extra source of inspiration, flip through some sex books.

Once you come up with your lists of naughty ingredients, you need a way to randomly choose a few for your erotic recipe. You could write them on slips of paper and pick them from a bowl. Or number each item and pick them by rolling dice or random number generators online. Just remember to keep each grouping separate. By mixing and matching an idea from each group together, you’ll have all the elements required for a night of frisky fun.

Flip a coin to see who goes first. Starting with the first category, randomly pick one of the ideas. Then alternate picking from each group until you both have 3 ideas each. Now the fun part – brainstorm a creative sex scenario to perform that incorporates all six ideas together. Then let the ideas lead you to some amazing sex experiences.

A fun twist is to choose the list of ideas in the morning then go off separately and work out your own variation for the evening. Write out a fantasy story line with all the juicy details then swap notes. See how close your ideas are then pick one to play out. You could also try to merge the two scenarios.

Keep the lists handy for more creative love games later. You can also randomly select a few yourself and surprise your partner with wild combinations of pleasure possibilities. It’s really that easy. Sex doesn’t have to be spontaneous. With planned random sex and a little imagination, you’ll enjoy more creative loving. Give it a whirl. Your sex life will never be the same again – it’ll be much more fun. Just remember, with all your bedroom games, leave your lover satisfied but always wanting more.

Creative sex sounds great but I can imagine what you’re thinking – you’d rather be making love instead of writing long lists of erotic ideas to choose from. Well, as they say, “There’s an App for that!” Available for the iPhone and iTouch, iLoveRandomSex gives you the sexy ideas and randomizes them for you too. Inspire your erotic creativity and start having better sex in your love life. Join the discussion and get more frisky lovemaking ideas on the Random Sex blog.